Tell me a thing - you're still playing the game?
Here is where you and many others out there didn't properly get. Right, I'll try to clarify!
Let's start with the respect thing: when we speak of respect in its form, the thing that it is obviously meant in this place (and willingly - ? - mistaken by whoever thinks the way you do) takes another meaning than the very meaning of the term itself. Your "respect" can be seen as: "if you treat me fairly, you earn the same from my side". Fair, right, but unfortunately, this is not what I and the forum rules have meant with it. Bringing respect on a forum simply means bringing it to the place you're in, and not directly to the person (though, this doesn't allow you to be aggressive or unpolite whatsoever); I don't care if you respect me or not - this is not what I am asking you - but I care when you disrespect who thinks differently than you, using an aggressive behaviour or, worse, not really polite terms: you're in a place that can possibly be seen by kids; don't forget it.
The second thing is still linked to terms, but differently: you see, the sentence "You're a good boy" (basic example, just to make you get it ^^) can be as first seen as a compliment. The point is that, since the language in general takes many forms and meanings dependently on the context we use them in, even this polite term can be seen as aggressive and disrespectful if we hear it from bullies who just threatened a kid in a school and the kid had to obey them without any other choice (another example - always good to clarify). The way you use "Fanboy", which contains normally nothing bad, used on another context might result as disrespectful and aggressive, and the bad thing is that you are aware of this.
Long story short, man
I won't argue with you further - there is no point on that and this is not the right place for that either, so I ask you to respect rules of the forum and keep a pleasant environment here. I don't think it's that hard, after all.
P.S: I never banned any form of criticism nor deleted it in any way. If with criticism you mean "This update sucks, you are just leeching money from us", then this is everything but criticism, and should be treated as everything but criticism.